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re: Brian Weiss Seminar

William — Sun, 19 Apr 2009 12:16:42 GMT

Thank-you Hillary. I enjoyed listening to your story and maybe will talk to you about it further.

-William

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re: Brian Weiss Seminar

Hilary Bond — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 23:59:27 GMT

Hi William,

I write in response to your posting and urge you to continue your path as I feel that it will benefit you to keep going on your quest of being "consciously" aware of the unconscious and superconscious part of your existence. Our past lives, ancestral or genetic memories, fetal memories and childhood memories before age seven are ninety percent of our memories and they are unconscious. We only are only consciously aware of ten percent of our memory. The unconscious memories govern our behaviour and life scripts. It seems we can only access this Theta brain wave state of our unconscious mind and Theta/Delta brainwave state of our lives between lives or the superconscious or spiritual state of "nowness."

I became aware that one can access this state of eternal "nowness" by living on a remote Aboriginal community in Australia and mediating whilst on certain "scared sites" which seem to be "portals" into that timeless state. I wrote my PhD and Masters Degree while living on that community and my PhD contains some of those experiences contained in the context of advice from some Aboriginal Elders. Similar "sacred sites such as the crypt at Glastonbury Cathedral, the tower on Glastonbury Tor, the space underneath the Dome of St Paul's Cathedral and the Hurlers standing stones on Bodmin Moor in South Western England (Cornwall or Dorset) are such time portals where one can access many time lines. Michael Newton and shamanic teachings talk about time lines one can choose where one needs to make a choice to have a better life or indeed to prolong one's life.

I recently bought a book called The Destiny of Souls by Dr Michael Newton. It is about lives between lives, in other words the state of "nowness" where souls recover in between lives, make choices about their next life, go before their Council of Elders to review their most recent life and join the soul group they have been with for thousands of years.

I found a hypnotherapist in my local area who had studied with Dr Newton to go through a life between life journey. As I have accessed over twenty past lives and indeed had been a past life therapist I felt that I need to look in on my life between lives to make a choice about a crossroads in life regarding a partner and a career.

Although I had read (over and over) Destiny of Souls and Life Between Lives: Hypnotherapy for Spiritual Regression both by Dr Newton I could not have in any way predicted or imagined what I was to see. After the experience I certain conclusions had dawned on me for weeks.

I have been ill all of my life with crippling headaches and nausea which lasted days often weeks. My left arm was almost useless and I was quite uncoordinated. I also had trouble with loved ones and partners leaving me (this included death) and jobs literally collapsing. All in all it has been a life of unpredictability and little stability when, above all, I have sought stability and safety for myself and my children.

In the "life between life" hypnotherapy experience (which lasts approximately 3 and a half hours) one enters the hypnotic state and views two experiences in early childhood, then speaks "as the soul" in the fetal state as to what the soul sees will happen in "this" life. Then one is regressed back to the past life which has most influenced this life. Then one goes back to the life between lives where one is met by one's guide, one's soul group and eventually meets the Council of Elders. I encourage you to read Dr Newton's books in this respect.

A great deal of the Life Between Lives seemed to be taken up in recovering from a horrific death where I was burnt and crushed to death whilst having a baby in a stage on earth long ago when there was a shower of meteorites or mini-asteroids. It seemed to be a primitive uncivilized stage on earth. I had come from another highly evolved planet with my partner and two others and crash landed on earth. The two others had gone mad because of a strange white light which seemed to be all pervading and they hid in a cave and my partner died before me when the cave collapsed.

I had been in charge of creating children. No one on this planet had children biologically. Geometric shapes were created and children were grown in these shapes. The shapes I created were pyramidal with the apex much sharper than the base. They were not equilateral triangular pyramids. My partner flew spacecraft and I went with him for a quick trip, but the craft lost control and crash-landed on earth. I can only assume some children must have died because of me leaving, although I did not see this.

When I entered the "Life in between Life" after going through a dark tunnel I was put in a "glass?" dome with a fine green mist. I was watched over in this state for ages by my guide and other misty figures. As there is no time in this state one wonders how long I was there. It seemed like years. I then saw myself in a bed and some of my soul group and my soul mate came forward. Except for my soul mate (who was bright yellow) we were all a pinkish-yellow colour with long slim bodies that seemed to be triangular in shape. The heads were sharply triangular. My guide stood to the left of my bed. I was eventually taken to the Council of Elders. There were at least ten to look at what I had done and what I needed to look at. On one side I saw a being who was my grandmother in my childhood and my grandfather on the other side. They urged me to consider "the river otter" which was my symbol. There was a great deal more which I will not explain here.

I can also only assume that I chose this difficult life to overcome what I did in my last life. I have felt a great deal better since the hypnotherapy.

I hope this will ad to your "ease". I live in Queensland, Australia and enjoy hiking, research, the beach, yoga, history and I love mmuseums and travelling overeas especially to the UK. . I have two degrees in history, one in teaching, a Masters degree in counselling and Aboriginal studies and a PhD in Indigenous education, anthropology and sociology. I teach counselling and human welfare at a Queensland universty. I enjoy spiritual discussion.

Best Wishes,

Hilary

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re: Landmark Education

Jazz — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 12:46:24 GMT

Thanks for the writeup & presentation to the group.

I liked the analogy of blind spots of car & Landmark helping people see their blind spots. I am also interested in knowing how to be able to do the things that I always wanted to do.

Todays discussion on our meetup was special. I got the message that to achieve we need to let our aspiration into the universe, totally believe that it will happen and then keep focusing our energy making it happen.

I hope one day possibly to attend the Landmark.

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re: Relationship - Image of a perfect partner

Christina — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 12:45:01 GMT

Rose, very well said. I don't think I could have said it better. Some ponderings for your question... Love yourself unconditional and share this unconditional love with others. When we love everyone in our lives unconditionally, then we can accept them for who they are. Also, realizing the differences in life energies. Check out the Life Energies DVD by Gary Null (www.garynull.com).

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re: Relationship - Image of a perfect partner

Rose — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 12:44:42 GMT

There is no perfect partner. If I believe ( as I do) that we are all a work in progress, constantly growing and changing, then it becomes impossible to maintain my "list" . That being said, I believe a successful relationship should enhance an already full and happy life. I like the concept the we are already everything we need to be and I try to remember that as I continue on my journey of self discovery. We need to maintain a love affair with ourselves first; discover and accept our own gifts, talents, fears, limitations, etc... so that we can offer the entire package of who we are to our loved one. I think a prerequesite for love is feeling safe enough to share our thoughts and feelings without fear of judgement. That means both parties having the courage to take off their masks and reveal their authentic selves. This has always been a challenge for me. I have spent a lot of time searching for my knight in shining armor and, in the process of projecting my own needs on to him, realized I had no real desire to know who he was. I needed him to be who I wanted him to be and, consequently, we both lost the opportunity for real intimacy and connection.

Ideally, a good partner should be authentic, non-judgmental and accepting. The question for me is this: how do I let go of my own fears, needs and ego enough to cultivate the same qualities in myself that I'm looking for in someone else?

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re: Relationship - Image of a perfect partner

Joanne — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 12:44:24 GMT

Perfect partner? Is there such a thing? When we're hurt by a past relationship would our perfect partner be the opposite of what we just had? Does our "ideal" change over time from broad idealistic dreams (he should be loving, honest, handsome, etc.) to scaled down basics (he shouldn't be an alcoholic!)? This will be an interesting subject to think about this week....

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re: Relationship - Image of a perfect partner

Alan — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 12:44:07 GMT

The perfect partner: Attractive, fit, fun, spirited, easygoing. Independent but affectionate. Active. Loves the shore (like me). Similar interests but some of her own. Not high maintenance, but likes to go out and do things. Supportive of my (and our) goals and dreams.

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re: Why its so easy to fall into a Relationship but so hard to get out of one ?

Alan — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 12:43:13 GMT

I think we fall in love, not just for biological reasons (i.e., the need for touch, sex, reproduction), but also because, at some level, we unconsciously recognize that we are incomplete, that there is something more to "being" than we normally experience in our everyday lives. Being human and somewhat flawed in our understanding of completeness, we look outside ourselves for someone or something to complete us. We define ourselves and our happiness by what we can achieve, or worse, what we can acquire. So, we try to "acquire" a partner and "achieve" love. This is not to say that we can't evolve through loving another. I think we can. There is definitely growth in establishing and maintaining loving relationships. But ultimately, we have to realize that happiness and fulfillment are internal states, created and maintained by ourselves.

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re: Why its so easy to fall into a Relationship but so hard to get out of one ?

Deb — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 12:42:53 GMT

Get therapy for both daughter and granddaughter. They need support and an empathetic ear. I am not sure what the above has to do with the question. The pain of a divorce is a death of sorts and the pain lasts as long as it lasts. There is no time frame for grief. There are no shoulds, no get over it, no time's up, only time will heal this wound and the support of loved ones. It is difficult to accept advice from those who have never experienced divorce. It is a difficult time for everyone. The parent feels guilt for taking the other parent away from the child on a daily basis, the child feels guilt - they believe they are the cause of the divorce. Although the child's belief is usually erroneous, it is still felt and carried with them until they leave this earth. Love is wonderful when it is new and not fraut with disappointments and losses. Love can be life long or fleeting, no one really knows what life has in store for them, they can only learn to cope with the here and now. I will this family time to heal and counseling to make the journey easier.

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re: How to Balance work & relationships ?

Julie — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 12:41:25 GMT

I think that if a person's spirit is alive and vibrant, then keeping a relationship alive and vibrant can be simple. The enthusiasm that one feels for life can simply become transferred into his / her relationship, and when this is true for both people in the relationship, it can be a great experience. Difficulty can arise when one's enthusiasm for life wains or when one's partner is not alive or vibrant. When one person in the relationship falls into depression, becomes distracted or neglectful, that person may be suffering too, and that may cause the relationship to suffer. Another question related to this topic could be: How do we keep ourselves alive and vibrant, and what can we do when our partner (or family member or good friend) is not?

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